What is singleness?
Singleness is a myth to be truly a single means to be all alone, separate, unique, and whole. No human can meet your character, soul, or spiritual needs; until you are a separate, single, unique, and whole person you are not ready to marry. many have confused “singleness” with “being alone” there should never b a time when you should cease to be single i.e unique and whole. if a state of singleness means “to be different and complete,” then to be totally single should be every Christian’s number one goal. Instead of running from being single, you should be running into singleness, In Genesis 2:18, God said: “it is not good that a man should be alone.” he didn’t say it wasn’t good for a man to be single. There is a profound difference between the two. to be alone all you need are other humans to be your companions and close friends.
Now knowing what singleness is let’s look into some benefits of being single.
Freedom of selflessness
As a young person who is not committed to any marriage or relationship to tend to have more time to develop yourself your single stage is a very important stage in your life when you need to acquire all the basic skills and knowledge you need to become successful in life, it the time when you have enough time to study the word of God and understand it meaning it the time to look after your personal health and develop your mind for future purposes. Its a stage in your life when you can determine the type of job you want to do, how you want to control your personal finance and build strong financial freedom for yourself, it’s a time to manage your time because keeping a relationship most times depriver you the freedom of spending more time on yourself to know yourself better. At this stage, you can choose who you want to be your friends and you to hang around with without any pressure of insecurity or quarry from anybody its the time to build a strong friendship bond with your business partner, colleagues in your workplace, and Christian friendship with members of your church.
Making use of your time wisely
As a single person, you should learn how to be on your own and spend a lot of your time finding the best you can offer to society. although it’s, not an easy task you should learn how to cook by yourself especially for the guys, doing the house chores all by yourself, and some ladies will find it a bit difficult ironing their clothes, taking care of yourself may mean different thing to other people around you. At this stage you should learn to take proper care of yourself your health should be your topmost priority, you should learn to practice health care and know what your body and take Its a time to set your life goal and how to meet it at your single stage you can build your confidence that will easily skyrocket you to your goals, It’s a time to focus more about your career and how to manage your wealth in the future.
Prepare your mind for a happy and healthy relationship
Your past relationship is one of your biggest teachers and as a single, you are to reflect on your past relationship only then can you be able to see and know the mistakes that contributed to the breakup, its time to notice what you may have done that make your partner had a breakup with you either by your actions, manipulative way of life, or maybe anger. Don’t be afraid to take some time for yourself don’t just jump into another relationship enjoy the single time and allow yourself to heal. Take some time to reflect on your character and see if you notice any flaws try to work on them to be a better partner and friend. although ist not easy because nobody wants to admit their flaws but if you can admit your flaws you can definitely make a correction and be a more happy person. You may have forgone your kikes and dislikes because of the love you have for your partner which is very wrong as a single person you are to identify thy type of food, drinks, music, games, and sports you like and dislike and learn a better means of telling them to your partner to avoid the same mistake it might have cost your previous relationship. Finally, learn to be very appreciative and develop the attitude of mindfulness it can be difficult when you are in a relationship as a lot of your time and attention are diverted.
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